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Divorce Math: The answer always equals one

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I have never been able to deal with numbers very well. I didn’t get the process or the language. I thought “Calculus” was some Greek God with the power to make men’s brains to explode. Balancing a checkbook is more difficult than balance a VW Beetle on my head. »more»

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How Stuck Are You in Your Job?

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Do you remember a time when your work was fun? Do you remember when you looked forward to going to wok? »more»

What Will Your Next Career Look Like?

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Thinking of retiring? If pundits are right (and it certainly looks that way from here), the concept of 'retirement' has been put to rest — permanently. Take a look at the recent history of employee benefits. Pensions were the first to go. They relied on a continuous growth model that has since proved to be unsustainable. They were replaced by IRA's and 401K's. How are yours doing these days? »more»

How Powerful Is Your Denial?

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There's a qualitative difference between the male ego and the female ego. I've never heard of anyone demanding of any female that she prove that she's a 'real woman.' It's just assumed. It's taken for granted. A woman is born a woman. That's exactly the opposite condition from the one that all males are born into. »more»

Your Deadly Assumptions

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Have you ever been traveling from one city to another, and you're in the airport at the gate, waiting for your flight to load? »more»

BloggingBoomers #94 is here at LifeTwo

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LifeTwo is proud to be this week's host of BloggingBoomers--a collection of blog sites that focus on various aspects of surviving and thriving through middle age. By clicking on the links below you will find this week's top picks from the member blogs: »more»

A Sneak Peek at the Future

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As the world financial situation continues to unravel before our eyes, the last vestiges of that sense of security that we've all been led to believe in has been exposed as the fairy tale that it's always been. »more»

Barack Obama and the World at Midlife

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Never fear: this is not a political exposé. Instead, it's a reflection on a fascinating conversation that I had with Dr. Jed Diamond last night on my internet radio program. As you may know, Dr. Jed is the author of the best-selling books, Male Menopause and The Irritable Male Syndrome. What I didn't know about Dr. »more»

Those Infidelity-Promoting Ads on LifeTwo

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One of our readers pointed us to an ad Google placed on LifeTwo -- for an infidelity-promoting "married dating" site! »more»

The Most Terrible Feeling of All

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One day my father, as a young man, came home from work to find the apartment cleaned out of furniture and swept clean. His wife (not my mother) was gone. Needless to say, reconciliation wasn't an option. »more»

Aging Backwards Tuesday Tips: Red Wine Warning

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Just when we thought it was safe to go into the wine cellar, a study by British researchers has found that many red and white wines produced in Europe have dangerous levels of toxic metals in them. »more»

Is The Man in the Mirror a Fraud?

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For the past few days, I've been reading Dr. Jed Diamond's newest book, The Irritable Male Syndrome with rapt attention (in advance of interviewing him on my upcoming internet radio program). In my estimation, this book is required reading for anyone in the helping professions. It explores a complex of issues that work together in men to create a raging animal out of concerned and loving person. »more»

BloggingBoomers #93 is at Don't Gel Too Soon

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This week's BloggingBoomer's tries to shake off some of the economic malaise seemingly hitting us from every side with 10 posts about excelling in midlife. Check out Don't Gel Too Soon and see what they've pulled together for you.

Get Proactive or Face the Consequences

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I'm putting out a warning call that the wise (especially wise men) will want to pay attention to: get proactive about midlife or face the consequences. For almost 20 years, author Stephen R. Covey (The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People) has been trying to convince people that taking a proactive stance toward life's problems works, whereas being reactive just doesn't work. »more»

If His Stories Don’t Add Up, Subtract Yourself

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When we begin to date someone, nearly always he is a stranger. Even if you meet through friends, work, class, church or other activities, you most likely barely know him. While you want to be open and trusting, you also want to be conscious of inconsistencies that point to him not being who he represents himself to be. »more»

Xenophobia and You

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"Xenophobe: A person unduly fearful or contemptuous of that which is foreign, especially of strangers or foreign peoples" [Wikipedia]. Regardless of where you fall personal on the spectrum of political opinion, you have to be at least a little awestruck at the recent US presidential election. »more»