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Submitted by Dating Goddess on December 9, 2008 - 12:55pm.
I dated a man for 6 months who was going through financial difficulty. When I asked why we didn’t see each other more than once every 10 days or so, he said he didn’t want to see me without being able to take me out. I explained that I was more interested in getting to know him than on his ability to entertain me. He said, “Romance takes finance.” »more»
Submitted by Dating Goddess on November 28, 2008 - 1:10pm.
Dearest Readers:
I need your assistance.
In the next 30 days I plan on launching the first of my 13(!) books on advice for midlife dating women based on my blog postings. But I need a little help from my friends and readers. »more»
Submitted by shepherdess56 on November 23, 2008 - 8:26am.
This topic of women in mid-life crisis needs to be addressed again in more detail and minus this politically correct approach which has been evident in the past through much of the media: print, radio or TV. »more»
Submitted by ctomshaw on November 18, 2008 - 8:51am.
I have never been able to deal with numbers very well. I didn’t get the process or the language. I thought “Calculus” was some Greek God with the power to make men’s brains to explode. Balancing a checkbook is more difficult than balance a VW Beetle on my head. »more»
Submitted by Karen on November 11, 2008 - 10:15pm.
With all due respect to Oprah, the life coach industry, and my overly-enthusiastic friend Y. who keeps insisting I live an "authentic" life, I'm beginning to think this midlife reinvention stuff is strictly for the birds. »more»
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Submitted by Wesley on January 6, 2009 - 10:23pm.
Robert Kiyosaki is a best selling author and is most know for his "Rich Dad Poor Dad". His books could be best called very personal finance as he covers topics typically off limits for financial books. The genesis of "Rich Dad" was his father's lack of financial security. This time it's his sister's turn. »more»
Submitted by shepherdess56 on January 6, 2009 - 8:31am.
OMG…Is Oprah having a Mid-life Crisis? »more»
Submitted by simply.human on January 4, 2009 - 10:54am.
Three days only into this nutty experience, and the world for me has become a surreal and disorienting environment. For my part, I am able to eat some now, and sleeping pills have made it possible to sleep. »more»
Submitted by simply.human on January 2, 2009 - 8:42pm.
I never thought I would be looking online for information or shared stories about possible divorce. »more»
Submitted by shepherdess56 on January 2, 2009 - 7:14am.
The number one topic that we discuss here is change and when it comes down to brass tacks...the one change that is predominant throughout discussions among men and women at Mid-life are: finding our Purpose in Life…this can be the problem or it is the answer! »more»
Submitted by Dating Goddess on December 31, 2008 - 11:00pm.
Sometimes we get lessons on dating — and life — from unusual sources.
The sand painter arrived early for the demonstration at the Arizona resort. He looked different than I expected — I made the stereotypical assumption that the demo would be by a Native American. He was not. »more»
Submitted by hlesbrown on December 31, 2008 - 10:01am.
Here we are, experiencing New Year's Eve. We're thinking about kissing 2008 good-bye (and, perhaps, good riddance). Most likely, we're looking forward to tomorrow and a new beginning. I say, "Most likely," because, as a person having to deal with midlife, you may also have some other thoughts on your mind today. »more»
Submitted by hlesbrown on December 30, 2008 - 8:07am.
Once more, the Grim Reaper is coming up the pathway to visit the old year, 2008. The economic forces that were put in motion over the last ten years have finally tipped the scales, particularly over the last six months. Huge corporations are dropping like flies or are begging to be propped up by the very people most hurt by their business decisions (us). »more»
Submitted by hlesbrown on December 29, 2008 - 1:26pm.
Well . . . to be honest with you, the end is near whether or not you choose to repent: the end of the year 2008, that is. We humans have a particular affinity for the ending of things: like graduations and funerals (not that there's any other similarity between the two). Yet, we mark transitions at least partly by looking backward while, at the same time, we're looking forward. »more»
Submitted by hlesbrown on December 24, 2008 - 8:52am.
And all through the house, not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse. There's not a person in our Western culture alive today who wasn't brought up hearing or reading Clement Clark Moore's poem from 1823, "A Visit from Saint Nicholas." Regardless of your religious beliefs and traditions, the spirit of warmth and generosity of the season can't help but touch all but the most broken of hearts. »more»
Submitted by Wesley on December 22, 2008 - 4:23pm.
As the Marriage Thing aptly writes "Out with the old and in with the new. As 2008 draws to a close, the Blogging Boomers leave you with these thoughts." Go to the last Blogging Boomers carnival of 2008 to for a collection of interesting and relevant posts to middle age.
Submitted by hlesbrown on December 22, 2008 - 9:31am.
Recently, I had a question from a man who was in serious pain because . . . his wife was going through a midlife crisis. In some ways, there's nothing odd or strange about that: women and men both experience the physical and emotional changes that signal the transition from adulthood to maturity. »more»
Submitted by Wesley on December 21, 2008 - 7:26pm.
When marriage is discussed on this site, it is almost exclusively about what has gone wrong. When you think of all of the stressors that can happen in middle age, it hard to imagine that any relationship could weather such an assault. But a surprisingly number do, but you don't hear so about them --and rarely does someone write about them. But finally someone has. »more»
Submitted by hlesbrown on December 19, 2008 - 9:53am.
I think that one of the biggest differences between the way women approach the midlife transition and the way men do derives from the very strong tendency that men have toward avoidance of significant midlife issues. »more»
Submitted by Wesley on December 18, 2008 - 11:15pm.
The scientific quest for longevity is heating up. After a century of dramatic increases in life expectancy from such things clean water systems and improved medicines and vaccines, studies are yielding important information on what produces healthy aging. Lifestyle is certainly one variable. »more»
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